Obviously, it was an ego boost, lots of fun and let me recharge and regroup. It was a nice commemoration to the time that we shared. None of my subsequent relationships lasted because I always felt something was missing. Just sleep with your ex. But is an ex encounter worth it? It's great in the moment, but it is ultimately the equivalent of an emotional seppuku for at least one of the parties involved. There's the flirting, a feeling of seduction, the thrilling idea of having a fling or pseudo-affair. I knew then there would be no more tears shed at his memory, and I also realized that all the great sex I thought I was having with him, was actually pretty mediocre. All new users can take advantage of a FREE one month trial. But if you want to continue to move forward into healing with your head held high, refrain. So things can go nowhere. Make sure to keep a close eye on your emotions; if you start to catch feelings, stop. My ex and I are very much connected and we have so much chemistry. But, if there's someone you dated briefly with whom you totally sparked sexually, if not romantically, why wouldn't you have a little fun together, at least from time to time? It's like the sex you had when you were dating. I am currently single and would love to find a relationship, but my ex is still in the background, even though he got married recently. Nevertheless, I have tried hard to move on.