Lie on your stomach and get him to lie on top of you, or hold himself from his elbows. Can be fun for oral play as well! Instead of bouncing up and down like they do in all of your favorite movies, have your partner swirl around in circles and rock back and forth so that the penis hits the wall of her G-spot over and over again. But besides that, missionary is my number-one position because I can control the angle of my pelvis to make sure he's really hitting just the right spot. Plus, because this position focuses more on rocking back and forth than thrusting in and out, men tend to last a bit longer too! I tried lifting my hips, like a bridge, and it worked. Woman On Top Variation: The opposite is actually true! Flattened Doggy Carlee Ranger There are other spins on traditional doggy great for women as well. Have your partner either stand in front of you or drape himself over you like a predatory animal. It's best to use a lubricant that's free of chemicals like parabens and mineral oils, which are toxic and can break down silicon products. For women, on the other hand, doggy style is not always a slam-dunk. Add Sex Toys To The Mix Sometimes adding a great new toy to your bedroom repertoire can avoid the risk of sex beginning to feel routine. That is next on our list! It can take the evening in all sorts of new and different directions. Women will still love this variation because the clenched thighs provide the same amount of clitoral stimulation if not more and allow for a little more hip movement to help your partner hit that sweet spot.