But six months into their relationship, her friends began to worry that Brian was too possessive. The pair were full of smiles and laughter as they spent the day at a church event, followed by a private dinner at an upscale steakhouse, after closing hours. Would you swan into the office one day, just to see how everyone was doing? Kevin, 28, was burned by his reunion with an ex. It quickly escalated, and after he told me he hated me, it was easy to block his number and truly love myself. No exceptions, full stop. Can a relationship that was once toxic ever be healthy the second time around? And if this time it fails, we can be assured of one thing: The more cynical among us saw Bieber's move for what it was. Who would be so deliberately foolish as to marry the same person twice? They are the Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton of our time; the public drama alone attests to this. But three months later, they reunited — once she and Brian agreed on setting boundaries. Wintour and Schaffer divorced in , and she remains with Bryan to this day. But that's typical of us oldies; not understanding the swirling, toxic lure of millennial love. And so, let us, both old and young alike, prepare ourselves for another go around the Gomez-Bieber carousel. Well then, you moved on for a reason. You wouldn't humiliate yourself.