And still for others, it is an aloof state whose promises sound intriguing, yet the practice to get there is unattractive. Before we throw up our hands and give up, consider the following: Physiologically speaking, there are a handful of possibilities. Laura Hale, a year-old woman from Louisiana, said she has experienced both sexually pleasurable and terrifying episodes of sleep paralysis. At some point, maybe he was developing a bond with a consciousness he could actually interact with, who would respond to him, give him opinions and preferences. Sex that remains purely sex becomes a distraction and ultimately stagnates your spiritual growth. I think it's just the sexual part of it that's embarrassing," she told Mic. What if spiritual sex was a misnomer for a state of being that is natural to all people? It can be painful for some people," Ryan Hurd, an independent dream and consciousness researcher and the author of Sleep Paralysis: I mean, talking about sex with spirits? Why do some people find sleep paralysis pleasurable, while others find it terrifying? This union is not so much a mindful awareness but an alert awareness that instinctively takes over. There allure is strong and if passed onto you you will become noticed, adored and spoiled. The Incubus - Is a male entity who is highly sexual and can be a modern ladies or mans best friend. I definitely felt sick about it, but it definitely felt like something sexual was happening to me and my body was responding," Hale told Mic. I've dabbled in sex magic here and there over the past year and have gotten satifactory results every time, but recently I feel like I've been recieving help from the other side. Despite the elbow-nudging and eye-rolling the idea of ghost sex can evoke, eerily similar experiences of supernatural sex or spectral rape have been reported in one form or another since at least B.