And that's every time you make love! Also, don't forget that sex positions with the woman on top can be much better for both partners. The man is saved the effort of thrusting, which can be tiring, and can make him come quickly. He loves the deep penetration, and he loves watching me as I climax as he plays with my clit. A young man emailed: The only other position we can do this is when we're in the side by side position. Should I be thrusting, which is how I thought it would be, or should I be doing what I was doing, which was sliding my whole body up and down hers, so as to move my cock in and out of her vagina? You the woman have one of his legs between yours and you then grind yourself against his thigh. Do you wonder if you are doing things right with your woman in bed? I have a long penis so I can get deep enough to make this pleasurable for both of us. I need my clitoris to be stimulated to reach orgasm, and one position where we can do this is with my man on top when I have my legs vertically up with him kneeling in front of them and pushing into me. For example, you can put your penis into her then simply lie still and enjoy the feelings as you "twitch" your penis, or she clasps you with her vaginal muscles. And for men, there's that amazing moment of pushing into her, of parting her labia, of sliding my penis into her juicy, hot, wet cunt those are her words, not mine, by the way! Then you can churn your penis around in a circular motion by moving your hips around in a circle. To do this, you need to support your weight on your lower legs and arms or hands, so that your pelvis is free to make the thrusting movements which will move your penis in and out. We find her clitoral orgasms tend to be short lived, and centered around her pelvis, while her G spot orgasms involve her whole body.